Pure Travel
  • About
  • Destination Inspiration
  • Tips & Advice
  • Guide
  • Travel Writing
  • Cookie Policy (UK)
  • Conservation
  • Privacy
  • Travel Writing Competition 2025
  • Reviews
  • Travel Resources
  • T&C
  • Contact Us
  • Conservation
  • Privacy
  • Travel Writing Competition 2025
  • Reviews
  • Travel Resources
  • T&C
  • Contact Us
Pure Travel
Pure Travel
  • About
  • Destination Inspiration
  • Tips & Advice
  • Guide
  • Travel Writing
  • Cookie Policy (UK)

Making Friends in Kefa

  • September 22, 2020
  • admin

“Excuse us for staring but we’re not used to people like you here.”

Smiling broadly, staring intently, ten or more people seem to emerge from invisible crevices of the tardis-like space. People like us? We stare at each other, trying to ascertain whose alien features created such avid curiosity.

“Not too many tourists here,” exclaims Marjo, the group’s spokesman. Again, smiles suggest we’re a welcome addition but it still seems a little strange to the ear given our current location is the Kefamenanu Tourism Office.

The four of us arrived in West Timor a few days ago and have been letting the itinerary work itself out. One form of public transport seems to have naturally led to another new experience and today is no exception. Marjo promptly suggests a visit to his cousin’s village in the hills called Nai’seo and, as an added bonus, decides to join us. We enquire about his guiding fee but he just laughs; “I need more friends than money.”

Out on the road, we’re aurally assaulted by honking bemos. These minivan-taxis are decorated with unique combinations of tinted window stickers and unofficial personalised plates. Frisbee-sized speakers vibrating beneath bench seats are also standard issue as is a pair of teenage boys who share the responsibilities of driving, chain smoking and pumping up the volume.

After a bit of wheeling and dealing, we’re off in the canary-yellow Party Chick. The view of crumpled green hills is filtered through an outline of Brittany Spears’ breasts and accompanied by the dulcet tones of an Indonesian techno version of Wind Beneath My Wings.

Soon Nai’seo is stacked before us. The heart of the village is a cluster of earth and thatched roofs. Tetun-Belun dialect rules so Marjo takes the lead as elderly ladies appear in rainbow coloured weavings and jangling jewellery. They’re proud to share these fineries and request family portraits. Names are exchanged and a Portuguese colonial influence is exposed by quadruple barrelled monikers. Maria, who is seven, has eight names. Her Dad is very proud and tries to help us memorise all the gifts he’s bestowed upon his daughter.

As the portrait business slows, villagers decide we should see the sights. It’s possible to walk through the fields to a point where we can view the sun setting over the border with East Timor. Our now sizable entourage moves off and a football match, played with a semi-flat ball, is started: no set boundaries, teams are fluid and boys, keen to prove their mettle against an international side, draft us in.

Gradually the hill opens out into a gently rolling field spread triangular between tree-crowned hillocks. Golden light makes every object more singular, more vivid, and lounging is the order of the hour. The children, however, look at us like we’re broken toys so we share binoculars and cameras. Some snap away, model or become art critics while others have their eyes extended like superheroes and claim to see people on the border that is now drowning in a sunset.

Maria’s dad sits on a rise above us all: silent, smiling, radiating like a guardian angel.

The game that never ends makes its way back with news of a herd of horses and a child stamped ensues. The beating of hooves arrives before the silhouettes of flying tails and manes; children run one-way, horses the other.
Meanwhile, Maria and her friend draw knees to chins; thin t-shirts and flip-flops are no match for the encroaching night chill. TIME TO GO.

We flow down the hill amongst a tide of field workers. Red betel nut-stained smiles keep pace with us even though heads are crowned with bales of animal feed. Machetes, which have sliced, slashed, dug, and diced all day, finally rest in belts slung over vivid sarongs.

An aged woman runs from a field and presents us with a giant potato. At first, we stare blankly so she slices it with her machete. Nerves boil. How does she still have fingers? Do we have to eat raw potato? A nibble to avoid offence. Hang on… sweet, juicy, like a nashi pear with nutty undertones. Our smiles ignite others: everybody seems happy to have introduced us to bengkuang.

Back at the village Party Chick’s dynamic duo are keen to hit the road. The nearly-flat football is finally left in peace as the children wave farewell. It’s a dark, bumpy journey back to Kefa, which we pass by chatting with our new friend Marjo.

M Hillman

Share
Tweet
admin

You May Also Like
packing for your trip
View Post
  • Tips & Advice

How to Prepare for Your Upcoming Flight

  • Jules
  • March 11, 2026
visiting Cap Salou
View Post
  • Travel Writing

Serenity Beckons at the End of the Street

  • Editor
  • March 9, 2026
Istanbul
View Post
  • Uncategorized

Istanbul Travel Guide 2026 – How to Experience the City Like a Local (and Skip the Chaos)

  • Jules
  • March 9, 2026
eSim Europe
View Post
  • Travel Resources

Best eSIM for Europe Travel: Your Complete Connectivity Guide for 2026

  • Jules
  • March 9, 2026
costa rica volcanic region
View Post
  • Destination Inspiration

Why Guided Tours Enhance Your Experience in Costa Rica’s Volcano Region

  • Jules
  • March 9, 2026
adventure park
View Post
  • Travel Resources

Airbags in Adventure Parks: Raising the Standard for Safety and Excitement

  • Jules
  • March 9, 2026
miami
View Post
  • Destination Inspiration

How to Explore Miami Like a Local With the Freedom of a Car

  • Jules
  • March 9, 2026
Oman desert visit
View Post
  • Travel Writing

The Desert’s Gift: How Silence Taught Me to Value Simplicity

  • Editor
  • March 7, 2026
  • packing for your trip
    How to Prepare for Your Upcoming Flight
    • March 11, 2026
  • visiting Cap Salou
    Serenity Beckons at the End of the Street
    • March 9, 2026
  • Istanbul
    Istanbul Travel Guide 2026 – How to Experience the City Like a Local (and Skip the Chaos)
    • March 9, 2026
  • eSim Europe
    Best eSIM for Europe Travel: Your Complete Connectivity Guide for 2026
    • March 9, 2026
  • costa rica volcanic region
    Why Guided Tours Enhance Your Experience in Costa Rica’s Volcano Region
    • March 9, 2026
Recent Comments
    Pure Travel
    • About
    • Destination Inspiration
    • Tips & Advice
    • Guide
    • Travel Writing
    • Cookie Policy (UK)
    A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step

    Input your search keywords and press Enter.

    Pure Travel
    Manage Consent
    To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. Not consenting or withdrawing consent, may adversely affect certain features and functions.
    Functional Always active
    The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network.
    Preferences
    The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user.
    Statistics
    The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you.
    Marketing
    The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes.
    • Manage options
    • Manage services
    • Manage {vendor_count} vendors
    • Read more about these purposes
    View preferences
    • {title}
    • {title}
    • {title}
    Pure Travel
    Manage Consent
    To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. Not consenting or withdrawing consent, may adversely affect certain features and functions.
    Functional Always active
    The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network.
    Preferences
    The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user.
    Statistics
    The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you.
    Marketing
    The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes.
    • Manage options
    • Manage services
    • Manage {vendor_count} vendors
    • Read more about these purposes
    View preferences
    • {title}
    • {title}
    • {title}